Thank you for taking good care of my brother and I the best you could. I do catch myself acting out my dad's poor behavior from time to time. I'm very sorry for that. Guess it's subconscious programming. Such awareness does allow my continued healing; whereas before, I was on autopilot with no destination. Also, I have distanced myself from those who would read such transparency and "take advantage" with false sympathy and self-righteousness, thereby temporarily satisfying their own appetite for worth. Speaking up for myself, articulating my true feelings and setting healthy boundaries are lessons I'm now learning to apply. I'm not quite there yet, though I know it's a process. Wish I listened to you sooner. Nevertheless, on this day, I appreciate you in my life now more than ever. Here's to you!
Love,
Owen
