Happy Summer Solstice

"You never try to create fruit.

You nurture the root;

Fruit will happen." 

-Sadhguru

Firstly, I wanted to acknowledge Juneteenth that happened a couple of days ago on June 19th, 2023.  The ONLY reason the emancipation should have never taken place, is because slavery should have NEVER taken place.  No slavery, no emancipation.  It is a barbaric practice at best.  This federal holiday to me is a solemn reminder of where humanity should never re-visit; and to allow the continued healing by keeping that shit in the rear-view mirror forever!

Now onto the Summer Solstice, the 1st Day of Summer.  This season brings about the contrast of a playful nature, along with the frustration of things unrealized in the timeline in one's mind.  The inflamed emotion of frustration could come from the heat and/or a psychological state of conflict between work and play.  However, we can see frustration in a good way.  Many times, these feelings are followed by a breakthrough of some kind.  This also means that we care about what we are trying to accomplish.

May we enjoy the journey, both in work and play; to find that balance.  Have a great summer, Everyone!

AMOR FATI

Thank you and good night.

P.S. 6/22/23: Happy Dragon Boat Festival!  端午節快樂!  :-) 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dragon_Boat_Festival

Happy Father's Day

“I chose to have children. They owe me nothing, I owe them everything.”

-Elon Musk

I originally was going to just post a blog around the time of the Summer Solstice, coming up this Wednesday.  However, I feel compelled to write a couple of lines here on this day, which in most parts of the world has come to an end anyway.

There were many slogans today, such as, "To all the dads out there..." and other variations thereof.  

I'm going to retort regarding such a commonplace yet naïve statement.  We live in a world where the celebration of a day, like Father's Day brings about rosy and infallible images of a biological father doing no wrong.  If you read the word "biological", you may already know what's coming next.

Just because someone got someone pregnant, doesn't make them a good father.  Even being around to take care of the mother of the child (or perhaps children, if there are twins, triplettes, etc.), and help raise the child(ren) doesn't make that person a good father.  We can even go to the far extent, and say that THINKING they are a good father does NOT make them a good father.  

Why?   

While, given the attempt to parent a child or children is better than abandoning one's post to civil obligation, doing such things in and of itself doesn't necessarily bring about the RESULTS of them turning out to be the "good people" we want them to be.  The whole debate about what is a good person in this context will need to rest in perhaps another blog.  Speaking about that, parenting does not make one a good person.  Since they brought a new living being into this world, it is their DUTY to raise the child or children to the best of their ability, even if it means raising them WRONG.  

So, "To all the dads out there", best of luck.  Don't fuck this up!

AMOR FATI

Thank you and good night.

P.S. If one wishes to bear the burden of judgement and assumption based on what I wrote here, just know I won't lose sleep over it; those who engage in such thinking might.  ;-)

P.P.S. I'm willing to even debate about it, though I won't be offering any money to participate lol. 🤣

P.P.P.S. 6/19/23: Happy Juneteenth!